
It is crazy how people can be such a part of your everyday life that you can't imagine how you would survive without then. Then you (or they) move away and you are expected to be satisfied with phone calls and hopes of future visits.
Christin was more than a friend for me. Our kids were constantly at each other's houses, we ran and talked for miles on end and we knew we could count on each other for anything, anytime of day. We have watched each others kids grow, watched our babies turn into crazy 3 year olds, exchanged parenting and marriage advice and helped each other through some serious heartache. I really do believe that we are placed in certain places at certain times so that we can meet the people that can help us progress. In fact, I go so far to believe our close friendships here are just extensions of what was started before we came to earth. I have no doubt that we were placed together at this specific time, for specific purposes. I am so thankful for the time together and don't feel quite ready to change to a long distance friendship.



We always said that the best part of our friendship was that we were both going to move away about the same time, so no one would have to feel guilty for leaving the other. Well, we left first, but they just passed through on their way to Utah.

(I was so pleased, because for the first time, I could fit all of the kids around my table!!! A small thing, but it made me so happy.)
It seemed more sad this time. Before I was so tired, so over-worked that I couldn't experience the full weight of saying goodbye to my dear friend. Now, with no warning, it all came out.

It took me a while after they drove away to regain composure, but it felt so good to finally get it out! Good luck Maxfields!!! We miss you all so much!